Since Charlie Kirk was shot and killed last week in cold blood at an outdoor college forum in Utah, our country has been in shock. The aftermath of that unspeakable tragedy has generated inspired and healing comments by that stateโ€™s governor, angry, ill-advised outbursts from others in public life, and even impassioned arguments, yet without proof, of left-wing radical groups creating the atmosphere that fostered and abetted the assassination itself. It has been both hard and disheartening for most of us to process it all.

But one thing seems clear. Itโ€™s time for genuine and candid national introspection on how we got to this terrible place and how we can get out. While Iโ€™m not sure thatโ€™s even possible any longer in our fractured country, if we donโ€™t at least try it seems certain that the unbridled acceleration of our public, political and personal discord and division will fill the void. We will all lose if we allow that to happen. Continued unchecked anger, finger-pointing, and demonization of โ€œthe otherโ€ may lead the United States to an unimaginable reckoning. Marjorie Taylor Green talks openly about a national divorce that I assume means the handshake creation of two nations โ€” one red and one blue. She might well be right about that future. Many days it feels like thatโ€™s already happening.

Something is seriously wrong. There certainly has been political violence throughout Americaโ€™s history. Indeed, my three heroes were killed in the 1960s by gunshots. But the shooting of Charlie Kirk, the clubbing of Paul Pelosi by an intruder who broke into his residence looking to find and harm the Speaker of the House, the attempted kidnapping of Michigan Gov. Gretchen Whitmer, the brazen murder of the Minnesota House Speaker and her husband in the privacy of their home, and the fire set at Gov. Josh Shapiroโ€™s official residence in Pennsylvania while he and his family were sleeping, feel different to me. So does the unparalleled proliferation of threats against members of Congress and federal judges. Hoping any longer that this will just pass would be a foolโ€™s bet.

Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz and wife Gwen stand with the crowd during a candlelight vigil for Melissa and Mark Hortman at the State Capitol building on Wednesday, June 18, 2025, in St. Paul, Minnesota. (Aaron Lavinsky/The Minnesota Star Tribune/TNS)

Todayโ€™s political violence seems the product of metastasized and generalized anger, fear, distrust of government, unbounded suspicions, misplaced loyalty, beliefs trumping facts, the blurring of boundaries and the eradication of norms. It is all compounded by social media, the dark web, public greed and the notion that those who disagree with us are the enemy. The usual forums where good faith political discussions could be held in casual, non-threatening environments seem to have disappeared into a virtual world where threats, smugness, ignorance and vitriol often rule. Even attempting to discuss political differences today in a thoughtful way seems near impossible. So many of us just bury our differences and are content to believe everything we think.

We can make a different choice, however, if we want. We actually can climb out of todayโ€™s political caldron but it will take genuine commitment to change. I doubt Washington will lead it, but we could.

I would suggest we need to create a series of forums in our communities for inclusive, informed discussions where we can hear in one sitting contrary, informed views on specific issues. We need to carry those discussions with us when we leave and commit to finding common ground wrought of principled compromise in our everyday lives. The news media in New Hampshire could assist, too, by hosting television, radio or internet forums for robust and civilized discussion on topics that matter. We need to acknowledge that rarely, if ever, does one political party or political leader possess all the right answers. Nor do we.

As a state and nation, we need to stop the derogatory blame game, put on our โ€œbig boy pants,โ€ start to listen to one another and realize that with each passing day we are fashioning the future our kids will inherit. If things donโ€™t change, their inheritance will be more a curse than a blessing.

Former N.H. Supreme Court Chief Justice John T. Broderick Jr. served as dean of UNH Franklin Pierce School of Law and founded the Warren B. Rudman Center for Justice, Leadership and Public Policy.

Alex Hanson has been a writer and editor at Valley News since 1999.