In the aftermath of the white-supremacist rally in Charlottesville, Republican lawmakers and leaders face the most unpalatable set of choices yet in their relationship with President Donald Trump. They are caught between disgust over his failure to unequivocally condemn neo-Nazism, a desire to advance a conservative agenda and fears of rupturing the Trump-GOP coalition ahead of the 2018 elections.

Recent condemnations of the president by Republican lawmakers have been harsher, more frequent and sometimes more personal than in previous moments when Trump went beyond what is considered acceptable behavior. Many GOP leaders are now personally wrestling with the tradeoffs of making a cleaner separation with the president, while finding no good options.

To some in the party, the hesitancy to act more boldly in response to Trumpโ€™s handling of the Charlottesville violence โ€” specifically his angry news conference Tuesday โ€” falls short of what they believe this moment demands.

โ€œAt what point does a principled party stand up for its principles?โ€ Tom Ridge, the former governor of Pennsylvania and homeland security secretary under former president George W. Bush, asked in a midweek interview.

Ridge, a longtime critic of the president, added, โ€œYou canโ€™t be afraid of losing an election because you stood up for what was right. A party of principle requires leadership. But at this time, weโ€™re kind of rudderless. We need a chorus (of opposition) and we didnโ€™t get it. … And frankly, if we did that, I think most Americans would applaud.โ€

What Ridge is calling for publicly is what some Republicans are asking themselves privately, which is whether a more direct break with the president is either advisable or possible. There are indications of private conversations underway within Republican circles about the presidentโ€™s behavior and whether, after seven months in office and a new chief of staff who many GOP officials hoped would temper the presidentโ€™s behavior, there will ever be a change. Many are concluding that the answer is no. The next question is what to do.

Itโ€™s clear that, as of now, many Republicans โ€” lawmakers, leaders and strategists โ€” have reached a pair of uncomfortable conclusions. First, whatever they and a majority of the public believe about the repugnancy of the presidentโ€™s comments, they believe Trump was duly elected as president on the Republican ticket and that he retains a deeply loyal following within the party. They are reluctant to go against that Trump base.

Second, however personally upset they are by the presidentโ€™s remarks, many lawmakers believe they must maintain a working relationship with the president if they are to accomplish their legislative goals โ€” including tax reform and even health care. So far, they have little to show for their work this year and see progress on that agenda as crucial to keeping grass-roots conservatives and Trump loyalists energized ahead of the 2018 elections.

Interviews with Republicans around the country since Charlottesville highlight the dilemma elected officials now face. Few were willing to talk about what comes next, even anonymously, and most elected officials and party leaders contacted declined requests for interviews altogether.

A GOP strategist working campaigns in red and purple states said that while support for Trump generally declined slightly since Charlottesville, support rose among his base, after a decline last month because of the failure on health care and revelations about the Russia investigation. This strategist said many Trump supporters applaud the presidentโ€™s continuing desire to shake up Washington, favor his economic priorities and admire his willingness to speak his mind.

But he said Trump has nonetheless created a longer-term risk. โ€œWhat heโ€™s doing thatโ€™s harmful is heโ€™s removing people from the persuadable audience, and thatโ€™s dangerous,โ€ he said. โ€œHeโ€™s taken an event where he could have added 5 percent of people to the persuadable universe and (instead) heโ€™s dumped out 10 percent of them.โ€

For many Republicans, this has become a look-in-the-mirror moment, a time for taking stock about their own actions, perhaps equal to or even beyond that which took place in the days after the release of the infamous Access Hollywood video in October. This time the personal criticisms of the president started more slowly but after Tuesday built to a crescendo as the week unfolded.

Sen. Cory Gardner, of Colorado, who chairs the National Republican Senatorial Committee, was one of the first to state his displeasure after Trumpโ€™s Saturday statement, which made no mention of neo-Nazis or white supremacists. He implored the president to โ€œcall evil by its name.โ€ Sen. Ted Cruz, of Texas, who faces re-election next year and who dueled with Trump for the 2016 presidential nomination, was similarly caustic in calling out white supremacists.

On Monday, Trump delivered what many Republicans had hoped to hear Saturday. Reading from a teleprompter, he criticized โ€œthe KKK, neo-Nazis, white supremacists and other hate groups that are repugnant to everything we hold dear.โ€ Had he stopped there, he might have avoided what was to follow. But the next afternoon, during an angry news conference at Trump Tower, the president once again sought to blame โ€œboth sidesโ€ and defended the neo-Nazi marchers.

That evening, Sen. Marco Rubio, R-Fla., said the march organizers were โ€œ100 percent to blame,โ€ adding, โ€œMr. President, you canโ€™t allow #WhiteSupremacists to share only part of blame.โ€ Rep. Patrick J. Tiberi, R-Ohio, accused the president of deflecting attention from the killing of Heather Heyer โ€œby a bigoted follower of the white supremacist movement.โ€ Former Florida Gov. Jeb Bush, another 2016 primary rival, tweeted that this was a time for moral clarity. โ€œI urge @POTUS to unite the country, not parse the assignment of blame.โ€

On Wednesday, Sen. Tim Scott, R-S.C., told the Post and Courier in Charleston, S.C., that the presidentโ€™s moral authority has been complicated by his response to Charlottesville. Saying Trump had tried to draw โ€œmoral equivalencyโ€ between the white supremacists and the counterdemonstrators, he told the paper, โ€œI think you are either missing four centuries of history in this nation or you are trying to make something what itโ€™s not.โ€

On Thursday, Sen. Bob Corker, R-Tenn., chairman of the Foreign Relations Committee, took it another step by questioning the presidentโ€™s โ€œstabilityโ€ and โ€œcompetence.โ€ He said Trump has not shown that he understands โ€œthe character of this nationโ€ and without that understanding, โ€œOur nation is going to go through great peril.โ€

Then, on Friday, Mitt Romney, the GOPโ€™s 2012 presidential nominee, posted a lengthy statement on his Facebook page calling on Trump to undertake โ€œremedial action in the extremeโ€ to atone for remarks that he said, โ€œcaused racists to rejoice, minorities to weep, and the vast heart of America to mourn.โ€ Romney said Trump should address the American people, acknowledge that he was wrong and apologize.

Four magazines โ€” The New Yorker, Time, The Economist and Der Spiegel โ€” rushed out covers that showed imagery of Trump and some version of a Klansmanโ€™s hood or a Nazi salute. The Economist declared that Trump had shown himself to be โ€œpolitically inept, morally barren and temperamentally unfit for the office.โ€

The Spectator, a conservative British magazine, echoed part of that sentiment but with a caveat that highlighted the box in which Republican officials find themselves. โ€œYet again, Trump has demonstrated the extent to which he is unsuited to be president,โ€ the magazine wrote in an editorial. โ€œBut yet again we can also see the forces at work that led him to power.โ€

Defenders of the president believe Trumpโ€™s base will only intensify its anger toward the presidentโ€™s critics. Saul Anuzis, the former Republican chair in Michigan, said Trump had been goaded by the media into the statements he made Tuesday. โ€œI believe there are media folks trying to put him in a position to create forced errors โ€” and he does,โ€ he said.

He added, โ€œI think itโ€™s an uncomfortable situation (for the party) that unfortunately is not easily walked back because there are a whole lot of people trying to stir it up.โ€ Saying he did not believe Trump was a racist or neo-Nazi sympathizer, he said, โ€œWeโ€™ve got a communications issue rather than a political problem (that) is going to be a challenge throughout his presidency.โ€

One strategist said he had just seen the numbers from a survey in a battleground state and that the presidentโ€™s approval among GOP primary voters stood at a still-impressive 85 percent. For elected officials, political survival remains paramount, and they are reluctant to get crosswise with that base.

โ€œElected officeholders have to speak to everyone in their constituency,โ€ said the strategist, who, like many, declined to speak on the record to offer a candid assessment. โ€œTheyโ€™re very concerned about the people who will vote for him next time and right now they still (like him).โ€

Another strategist said that, despite the concerns about the president, there are any number of Republicans who see the party in good shape. โ€œThey say the Republican Partyโ€™s never been stronger,โ€ he said. โ€œWe have more governors, we have more state legislators, fundraising is great. What are you complaining about?โ€

He added that Republican elected officials โ€œeither have to feel punished or be punishedโ€ before they will break significantly with the president. โ€œThere has to be some sense that there is a price to be paid for this,โ€ he said.

A party activist noted that, by many traditional metrics, Republicans are strong. โ€œThen thereโ€™s the worst of times,โ€ he said. โ€œWhat happened in Charlottesville … reinforces our biggest problem as a party, which is one word, the perception of intolerance. … Whether true or not doesnโ€™t matter. This reinforced that in a big way.โ€

The internal concerns go well beyond that, however. Party leaders and elected officials more closely tied to the establishment wing of the GOP see a succession of discouraging actions by the president, from his public criticism of Attorney General Jeff Sessions to the firing of former Republican National Committee chairman Reince Priebus as White House Chief of Staff and especially his attacks on Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell. R-Ky.

โ€œWhat does the party do if it appears as though the president doesnโ€™t support the leadership in the party?โ€ said a Republican activist, who would not agree to be identified. โ€œHow does the party run if the person who supposedly runs the party doesnโ€™t embrace the party? That is a big question. That is a conversation that is out there right now.โ€

The answer is there is no obvious one, as many Republicans underscored in interviews. Some lawmakers anticipate that individual Republicans will maintain greater distance from the president in public settings and in their rhetoric while focusing more intently on a legislative agenda that remains largely unfulfilled. In essence, that would mean they would begin to chart the partyโ€™s course without particular regard for Trumpโ€™s priorities.

Trump has made that easier for congressional Republicans with his attacks on McConnell, which deeply offended McConnellโ€™s Senate colleagues. His more recent attacks on Sens. Lindsey Graham, R-S.C., and Jeff Flake, R-Ariz., and earlier ones aimed at Sens. John McCain, R-Ariz., and Lisa Murkowski, R-Alaska, only add to the impetus to operate more independently.

A Republican strategist directly engaged in 2018 politics said progress on the GOP agenda, particularly tax cuts, could help to diminish some of the anguish that has been on display this past week. โ€œCutting middle-class taxes and improving the economy?โ€ the strategist asked. โ€œA lot of people will forgive a lot of sins if that happens.โ€

But he conceded that the weekโ€™s events could complicate that path to success. โ€œI would be very hesitant to say (Charlottesville) has real meaning six months from now,โ€ he added. โ€œI think where it hurts the most, itโ€™s just another thing that makes it harder to get the middle-class tax cut done.โ€

One alternative to charting their own course would be for Republicans collectively to issue a sharper rebuke of the president. But that seems challenging, even in the assessment of Republican detractors of the president.

โ€œWhat does it mean to โ€˜breakโ€™ with the president?โ€ asked William Kristol, editor at large of the conservative Weekly Standard and one of Trumpโ€™s most vocal critics. โ€œItโ€™s a pretty big move in effect to go into opposition to a president of your own party. Itโ€™s a very unnatural mode for an elected congressman or senator.โ€

Another GOP strategist put it bluntly: โ€œIโ€™m not trying to justify what he said, but thereโ€™s the practical issue. What youโ€™re asking is, do Republicans break with him fundamentally? Heโ€™s the president. What are you going to do, impeach for this?โ€