South Royalton, VT – Monroe E. Mayer (“Monte”) passed away, appropriately on Veteran’s Day, November 11, 2026, at the age of 98, joining his wife, Joan. Born and raised in New York City, as a teenager Monte volunteered early in World War II as a “night guard”, patrolling the streets of Manhattan for errant light during blackout periods. At age 18 he was inducted into the United States Army Air Force and active in operation “Paper Clip,” which recovered, studied and disseminated captured German research and plans. Upon discharge, Monte finished his high school education, then benefited from the G.I. Bill, attending New York University.
Thereafter Monte enlisted in the United States Air Force, and in 1951 his 514th Troop Carrier Wing was activated for the Korean conflict. Upon his second honorable discharge, Monte returned to his education, graduating from New York University and the Brooklyn Law School. He achieved these educational milestones by attending school at night and working as a shipping clerk during the day. During this period, he and Joan married and had two sons, Tavian and Barton.
With law degree in hand, Monte, Joan and the boys moved to Nanuet, NY, where two more sons, Ilerdon and Livian, joined the family. After admission to the New York Bar, Monte opened his own practice and became well-known in Rockland County legal circles. As Cubmaster of the local Cub Scout pack, Monte introduced his sons to scouting and a love of the outdoors. Monte and Joan took their family on vacations, camping in a canvas tent from Maine to Michigan and beyond.
While nurturing his family life, Monte joined the Jewish War Veterans of the U.S.A. (“JWV”), where advocacy on veteran’s issues became a lifelong commitment. He eventually rose to the rank of National Commander in 1999, having served in a variety of high-level positions including National Executive Committeeman, Chairman of the National Board of Inquiry, National Inspector, Chief of Staff to the National Commander and National Judge Advocate. Monte remained active with the JWV for over fifty years and was very proud of his service to our country and its veterans.
Monte and Joan relocated to South Royalton in 1996, making Vermont their home. Monte was admitted to the Vermont Bar, and joined Tavian and Ilerdon at their law firm where he served as ‘of counsel’ for many years before retiring. Monte was delighted by grandchildren, Eliza, Jacon, Hannah, Jessica, and great grandchildren, Bennett and Eulian. He will be remembered as a hard-working and loving husband, father, and grandfather, and a dependable friend.
A graveside service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, November 16, 2026, at the Upper Valley Jewish Cemetery in Lebanon, NH.
The Boardway and Cilley Funeral Home, Chelsea, VT is in charge of arrangements. A private message of sympathy for the family can be shared at www.boardwayandcilley.com.
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