Many of us grew up thinking of the library as a quiet place where children and adults were often reminded to “shhh.”
Libraries were often viewed as an adult retreat rather than a place for children to play, learn, and explore. Today, however, Upper Valley libraries offer much more for people of all ages. They can be valuable resources for parenting support and family activities. They can also help children prepare for new experiences such as the first day of school, a dental visit, travel, or other transitions. With books, programs, knowledgeable staff, parenting information, playgroups, and family-friendly opportunities, libraries can serve as a welcoming community hub where families from rural towns to larger cities can connect, learn and grow.
Upper Valley libraries offer many free educational, social and developmental resources beyond book lending. These include story times, early literacy activities, parenting workshops, playgroups, STEM programs and educational materials.
Busy schedules, transportation challenges, limited outreach and the idea that libraries are mainly for older children or adults can keep families from participating. As a result, families may miss valuable support for children’s language development, school readiness, and social-emotional growth, as well as a welcoming place to connect with others.
Your local library is more than a place to borrow books — it is a trusted community partner where families can find information, activities, resources and connection. The next time you need inspiration, support, or a place to spend time together, consider visiting your library. Also, ask your librarian about free statewide tickets and family-friendly opportunities, such as admission to local attractions, museums, concerts, workshops, and playgroups.
As a Parent Educator, I encourage families to think of the library as more than a quick stop — it can be a simple, low-cost outing for every season. On dark, cold winter days or long, hot summer days, a library visit can become a field trip, a weekly family activity, or even a themed adventure. Pack a snack or lunch, invite a friend, choose a special topic to explore, include a fun walk to the library, and let the trip feel like something to look forward to.
Upper Valley communities also offer wonderful free public transportation (even on Saturday mornings) that stop near libraries. Consider taking the bus and making the ride part of the fun. No matter how you get there, the library can be a welcoming place to spend time, learn together, and build positive family memories. I think you will find more than back in the “shhh” days.
Lori Stever is the parent education coordinator at The Family Place, a Norwich-based nonprofit organization.